Self check💗 Love & Friends
What’s Your Attachment Style?
Why you love the way you do
Twelve statements measure relationship anxiety and avoidance of closeness, showing whether you lean secure, anxious, avoidant or fearful-avoidant.
3 min📝 12 questions
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About this game
Attachment theory began with John Bowlby’s work and was later extended to adult romance. Modern research describes attachment on two axes: anxiety (fear of being left) and avoidance (discomfort with closeness). These items were written by URA.RED for self-reflection — this is not a clinical tool, and attachment patterns can change through experience and safe relationships.
All possible results ✨
- Safe HarbourSecure style
- Blooming HeartAnxious style
- Lone MountainAvoidant style
- Moon Behind CloudsFearful-avoidant style
How it works
You rate how much each statement fits you. Answers are averaged per trait (some are reversed) into a 0–100 level.
For fun and self-reflection — not a medical or psychological diagnosis.
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